Cuckolding for Beginners by Mike Coxhard Part I
Since Anita and I have started posting on X-Hamster, I have received the same question over and over. It's a question I have seen frequently across the intrawebs, and one that will never go away. That question is, “How did you convince your wife to do what she does sexually”. The answer is simple...
I didn't.
Anita isn't a porn star, nor does she have a long and exciting sexual history. Before me, the most exciting thing she ever did was have a “fuck buddy”. More on that in a little while.
Before me, Anita never had sex anywhere besides a bed, even with her first husband. She never had a guy cum on her, she never made a sex tape of any kind. She was extremely boring some would say sex-wise. I mean, before me, she was only with around nine other men.
So if that's the case, why in the world would she do what she's doing? Why is she showing her who-ha in porn videos for all the world to see?
Not because she wants to. Nor is it because I want to.
Anita does it because WE want to.
I need to preface the fact that Anita has yet to fuck another man before I continue. Oh, she definitely is. Sooner than later we both hope as well. Just today she told me she's picked out the man she wants to fuck. And I approve of him. A process that has taken months. Remember, it'll be her first time. She's spent months chatting with this guy. Getting to know him. Getting...comfortable. We both want the first time to be extremely comfortable. Neither one of us want an awkward moment to rear it's ugly head the evening another man gives Anita a creampie.
In fact, I wasn't going to write this blog until we actually did have a cuckold experience together. But more and more men are asking me how do they convince their wives to be more like Anita. And she hasn't fucked anyone else yet.
So how did we get here?
Like I said, it has to be something you both want to explore sexually. For us, it began around ten years ago. We had been married around five years at that point and the idea of making our sex life kinkier had become a topic of discussion for us both. The thought of cuckolding was a long ways a way. But we started with some good ole dirty talk.
“What's your dirtiest fantasy?, I whispered in her ear as I slammed my cock into her hairy pussy. Her, laying on top me me so her tits could be pressed against my chest. I love Anita's tits. They are, in my opinion, the most perfect tits in the world. And don't get me started on her nipples.
“It was a threesome”, she responded.
And that's where it all started. Her deepest fantasy was a threesome.
While Anita wasn't that sexually experienced when we met, I myself had some mileage on me. So much so Anita has always jokingly called me a “man whore”.
She isn't wrong.
Back in college I was drinking with three friends. Two were a couple, the other a single guy. The alcohol was flowing very heavy that night and the next thing I knew the four of us were skinny dipping in the apartment complex pool. Maybe it was the alcohol but I decided to have some fun and started diving off the diving board. Well, my one friend dared me to do a belly flop...with a boner. He even was going to have his girl orally “prep” me, just to make sure I was fully erect. To be honest I was going to turn it down...until she walked up to me on the diving board and placed her mouth over my cock. I was younger and hornier back then. It didn't take me long to get an erection.
I did the belly flop. And my reward was her lips back on my cock. That was about the time her boyfriend suggested we go back to my bedroom and have a condom party. It was my first gang bang that night.
Anita, after her divorce, used to go over to a guys house just to fuck. That's her craziest sex adventure.
I never had that in all my single days. These days she tells me detailed stories of her fuck buddy. The idea of her only wanting sex. Craving sex, turns me on more than you'll ever know. She tells me she used to go over there, get naked within minutes of arriving and fuck. There was extremely little foreplay Anita said. Just fucking.
As a couple it is critical you take your time slowly exploring the world and not dive right into it. So far, the journey has been fun. After Anita said she wanted a threesome we would fuck and explore that fantasy more and more. We'd watch porn together regarding our fantasies. Sometimes we'd mutually masturbate. Sometimes we'd fuck. Never did we rush anything.
It was about a year ago we decided to start posting photos and videos. Nothing exciting some stuff on Twitter and some more on Reddit. That was about it. Little did I know that was what Anita needed to motivate her to want to do more.
Anita never thought a man with a big cock would want to fuck her. She felt she wasn't attractive enough. She thought she was too old. But then more and more men started contacting us, or really...her. It wasn't until we were posting on Twitter and Reddit did Anita convince herself that maybe a guy with a big cock would want to fuck her. This after receiving numerous tribute photos and most of them being rather blessed in size.
Since then we've placed several ads looking for a companion. As I mentioned before, Anita wants to be comfortable the first time. I want her to be comfortable the first time. She wants me to be comfortable the first time. We all want to be comfortable.
I was out of state, in a hotel, when Anita was talking to one potential suitor. One night, while I was gone, Anita and this gentleman really had a hot discussion. It was so hot Anita and this gentleman started masturbating and sexting pics. At one time, I would've been jealous, but not anymore. As I mentioned, we've taken our time. This is something we both want. Anita wants to be with another man and I want to see it. So the moment of her sexting with another man was huge. We had to overcome so many barriers for us to get there. There was jealously, is it cheating, anxious, nervous. So many small things had to be tackled one by one just so we could get to the point of Anita sexting and masturbating with another man. All while I was out of state.
Afterwards she sent me screen shots of everything said. I jerked off at least four times that night.
That was a year ago.
And here we are now. Again, just today Anita told me she's ready and wants to fuck another man and she knows exactly who that man is. That doesn't mean I am booking the Motel 6 this weekend. She needs to tell me when she wants to do it. It'll be soon I am guessing.
We started out ten years ago dirty talking about threesome during sex and here we are now. Ready to have a cuckold moment. Both parties need to feel comfortable with the idea. If She isn't, find something she is interested in. BDSM, furries, nude hiking, outdoor sex, there's an endless array of things couple can do sexually together. The key is find something you both want to do. Then, take your time exploring it. Anita's threesome fantasy evolved into cuckolding. It evolved because that's what we both wanted. And slowly exploring has led us here.
Thanks for reading. I'll be back soon with more.
-Mike Coxhard
I didn't.
Anita isn't a porn star, nor does she have a long and exciting sexual history. Before me, the most exciting thing she ever did was have a “fuck buddy”. More on that in a little while.
Before me, Anita never had sex anywhere besides a bed, even with her first husband. She never had a guy cum on her, she never made a sex tape of any kind. She was extremely boring some would say sex-wise. I mean, before me, she was only with around nine other men.
So if that's the case, why in the world would she do what she's doing? Why is she showing her who-ha in porn videos for all the world to see?
Not because she wants to. Nor is it because I want to.
Anita does it because WE want to.
I need to preface the fact that Anita has yet to fuck another man before I continue. Oh, she definitely is. Sooner than later we both hope as well. Just today she told me she's picked out the man she wants to fuck. And I approve of him. A process that has taken months. Remember, it'll be her first time. She's spent months chatting with this guy. Getting to know him. Getting...comfortable. We both want the first time to be extremely comfortable. Neither one of us want an awkward moment to rear it's ugly head the evening another man gives Anita a creampie.
In fact, I wasn't going to write this blog until we actually did have a cuckold experience together. But more and more men are asking me how do they convince their wives to be more like Anita. And she hasn't fucked anyone else yet.
So how did we get here?
Like I said, it has to be something you both want to explore sexually. For us, it began around ten years ago. We had been married around five years at that point and the idea of making our sex life kinkier had become a topic of discussion for us both. The thought of cuckolding was a long ways a way. But we started with some good ole dirty talk.
“What's your dirtiest fantasy?, I whispered in her ear as I slammed my cock into her hairy pussy. Her, laying on top me me so her tits could be pressed against my chest. I love Anita's tits. They are, in my opinion, the most perfect tits in the world. And don't get me started on her nipples.
“It was a threesome”, she responded.
And that's where it all started. Her deepest fantasy was a threesome.
While Anita wasn't that sexually experienced when we met, I myself had some mileage on me. So much so Anita has always jokingly called me a “man whore”.
She isn't wrong.
Back in college I was drinking with three friends. Two were a couple, the other a single guy. The alcohol was flowing very heavy that night and the next thing I knew the four of us were skinny dipping in the apartment complex pool. Maybe it was the alcohol but I decided to have some fun and started diving off the diving board. Well, my one friend dared me to do a belly flop...with a boner. He even was going to have his girl orally “prep” me, just to make sure I was fully erect. To be honest I was going to turn it down...until she walked up to me on the diving board and placed her mouth over my cock. I was younger and hornier back then. It didn't take me long to get an erection.
I did the belly flop. And my reward was her lips back on my cock. That was about the time her boyfriend suggested we go back to my bedroom and have a condom party. It was my first gang bang that night.
Anita, after her divorce, used to go over to a guys house just to fuck. That's her craziest sex adventure.
I never had that in all my single days. These days she tells me detailed stories of her fuck buddy. The idea of her only wanting sex. Craving sex, turns me on more than you'll ever know. She tells me she used to go over there, get naked within minutes of arriving and fuck. There was extremely little foreplay Anita said. Just fucking.
As a couple it is critical you take your time slowly exploring the world and not dive right into it. So far, the journey has been fun. After Anita said she wanted a threesome we would fuck and explore that fantasy more and more. We'd watch porn together regarding our fantasies. Sometimes we'd mutually masturbate. Sometimes we'd fuck. Never did we rush anything.
It was about a year ago we decided to start posting photos and videos. Nothing exciting some stuff on Twitter and some more on Reddit. That was about it. Little did I know that was what Anita needed to motivate her to want to do more.
Anita never thought a man with a big cock would want to fuck her. She felt she wasn't attractive enough. She thought she was too old. But then more and more men started contacting us, or really...her. It wasn't until we were posting on Twitter and Reddit did Anita convince herself that maybe a guy with a big cock would want to fuck her. This after receiving numerous tribute photos and most of them being rather blessed in size.
Since then we've placed several ads looking for a companion. As I mentioned before, Anita wants to be comfortable the first time. I want her to be comfortable the first time. She wants me to be comfortable the first time. We all want to be comfortable.
I was out of state, in a hotel, when Anita was talking to one potential suitor. One night, while I was gone, Anita and this gentleman really had a hot discussion. It was so hot Anita and this gentleman started masturbating and sexting pics. At one time, I would've been jealous, but not anymore. As I mentioned, we've taken our time. This is something we both want. Anita wants to be with another man and I want to see it. So the moment of her sexting with another man was huge. We had to overcome so many barriers for us to get there. There was jealously, is it cheating, anxious, nervous. So many small things had to be tackled one by one just so we could get to the point of Anita sexting and masturbating with another man. All while I was out of state.
Afterwards she sent me screen shots of everything said. I jerked off at least four times that night.
That was a year ago.
And here we are now. Again, just today Anita told me she's ready and wants to fuck another man and she knows exactly who that man is. That doesn't mean I am booking the Motel 6 this weekend. She needs to tell me when she wants to do it. It'll be soon I am guessing.
We started out ten years ago dirty talking about threesome during sex and here we are now. Ready to have a cuckold moment. Both parties need to feel comfortable with the idea. If She isn't, find something she is interested in. BDSM, furries, nude hiking, outdoor sex, there's an endless array of things couple can do sexually together. The key is find something you both want to do. Then, take your time exploring it. Anita's threesome fantasy evolved into cuckolding. It evolved because that's what we both wanted. And slowly exploring has led us here.
Thanks for reading. I'll be back soon with more.
-Mike Coxhard
1 year ago
